just_me4who_knows

Sunday, May 07, 2006

just_me4who_knows

Hey, I'm ho i am, and if you're like most people, I don't expect you to read all this shit. But in the event that you are interested in more than my pictures, by all means continue.
I'm pretty much just your normal down-to-earth guy, I just tend to attract more attention than most, fortunatley, I got over myself and keep my ego in check, there's only one head I like to keep big, and it's not the one I think with. Anyway, I've experimented alot with my "look";

For the first time in my life, I actually feel like I'm ready and want to find a boyfriend, which is completely alien to me, since I'm so used to being independant. I guess being independant has taught me that I am all I need, but I've realized that what I want and what I need are not the same thing. I would like to find someone who I could give up my independace to, and admit that I want to be with them more than I want to be alone and self-sustaining. Part of the problem of finding a guy is that.I want a guy who has his shit together because I've got mine pretty much taken care of. Most guys my age tend not to have their shit in line, and the guys who are older than I am and do, don't want a youngin' or just want to fuck around. Probably the most important trait I look for in a guy is confidence of self, if you're not out, if you have body image issues, if you can't be real, you and I are not a romantic possibility, I'm always open to friendship, however. I really don't care about your body shape or physical flaws, if you have the confidence to overcome that, and the charisma to not give a fuck, I'm right there with you. That counts for so much more than physicality, I want you to believe that your beautiful regardless of how many times I tell you. I think I'm looking for someone who's on my same wavelength. I really haven't met anyone who I can connect to in that sense, and I'm not saying I'm on a higher or lower wavelength than anyone else, just a different one.
If things are just about sex, I'm totally cool with that too, I'm all about sexual liberation. Tell me what you like; what you're into I'll let you know if I feel the same way and if I'm up for it. Just be real about it and there won't be any problems. I think just being upfront and admitting what it is you want is respectable, and I'll at the very least commend you for it, even if I'm not interested in a hookup. I'm extremely discerning when it comes down only to sex, so I can't promise that you have a chance, but I can promise I won't play games. When sex is all you have to offer, I'm going to make sure it's worth it before I agree to anything.

If I am deeply attracted to someone immediately, I will trust my emotions, and I am willing to start a serious relationship right away.
I trust my romantic instincts. If I'm seriously drawn to someone, I don't care about traditional matching characteristics (like similar age or financial status). I go for it!
I believe it's better to go for it and get burned, than to hesitate and never know.
If there were a contest that I had very little chance of winning, I'd still enter. I'd think I actually had a chance to win!
I've never regretted putting all my feelings on the line and making myself vulnerable - even after I didn't get the person I originally wanted.
I could imagine myself falling in real, true love within a six-week
I expect the person I love to be honest and true to me. I almost never have a suspicious thought cross my mind.

When I start something new, I don't need to do a bunch of research. I prefer to dive in first and deal with complications as they arise.
I hate it when someone points out all the problems with a new idea and potentially kills it before it even gets off the ground. I say, let's give ideas their best chance to succeed.
I like to plan out everything in advance. I don't like having plans changed at the last minute
If I feel loving, I'm hot, passionate and all over the person I want. I don't moderate my romantic and sexual emotions
I think saying what you mean, even if it hurts, is important in a relationship
I don't like big parties. I almost always prefer time alone or time just with my partner

If things are just about sex, I'm totally cool with that too, I'm all about sexual liberation. Tell me what you like; what you're into I'll let you know if I feel the same way and if I'm up for it. Just be real about it and there won't be any problems. I think just being upfront and admitting what it is you want is respectable, and I'll at the very least commend you for it, even if I'm not interested in a hookup. I'm extremely discerning when it comes down only to sex, so I can't promise that you have a chance, but I can promise I won't play games. When sex is all you have to offer, I'm going to make sure it's worth it before I agree to anything.
I`m naive, but not stupid,
i`m goodlooking, but not spoiled,
i`m intelligent, but not smart,
i`m egocentered, but am not an egomaniac...

Hmmm, what can i say....i think as is very dificoult for to describe myself but i try to be very reality.I love to explorer myself. I have nice soul.I`m inteligent with a strong character,honest,romantic, shy guy with a good sense humour.I`d like to think i am a lovely guy who just wants to have a good time with other great people!I`d just like to make friends with people similar to myself.Always looking for new friends.I`m a good arhitect for your heart. I judge a person by what is in his heart more than on
looks. Maybe you are him,only time will tell. Where is the love?I lost the Happy,i offer recompense my HEART and my LOVE wich u can find HAPPY for me....U like to go shares with me Love?I can to sustain fire of LOVE only together.Soul is most important that the appearance,because looks go over sweeping but soul is he who remain.My offer is a drop from the ocean of love and i think about all peoples deserving of love somebody

For the people who like Cliffs notes:

The key things for me are:
just be real about shit, I don't care if you just want sex, just make it known up front. If you think you want something more, let me know. I like guys with balls, and if you don't have them, there's not much I can do for you. I am a person too, always keep that in mind, I have my flaws, and I have feelings. Treat me like a person, and we'll get along great.

If you want to know more about me, let me know. There's alot more to learn.